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SexBod Series Ep 8 | Making Money as a Sexological Bodyworker

Welcome back to The Sexbod Series, Episode 8 of this special 8-part mini-series where I’m joined again by my good friend and fellow Sexological Bodyworker, Simon Heller. Simon, who now teaches this transformative practice, brings his deep expertise as we explore the intersection of self-love, sexuality, and the body through the lens of Sexological Bodywork. This series is designed to share knowledge, educate, and illuminate this powerful modality—helping listeners understand its potential to transform their relationship with themselves and their bodies.Episode 8: The Art of Being Alive – Making Money as a Sexological Bodyworker
In this final episode of The Sexbod Series, Simon and Simon Heller are joined by fellow Sexological Bodyworker Luzi Pods for a deep and expansive conversation that goes beyond business—it’s about being alive.
The question “How can I make money as a Sexological Bodyworker?” comes up often, and while practical insights are shared, this conversation reveals something deeper: when we are truly alive, passionate, and embodied, what we do flows naturally.
Together, we explore:The connection between aliveness, purpose, and prosperityHow Orgasmic Yoga and Sexological Bodywork activate the body to feel, breathe, and experience from the inside outThe art of doing life—expanding our capacity to feel everything, from pleasure to pain and all that’s in between
This final episode is an invitation to embrace the fullness of life, sensation, and embodiment—both as a practice and a way of being. Tune in for an inspiring, real, and deeply felt conversation that wraps up The Sexbod Series with passion, wisdom, and aliveness.Luzi Pods | Sexologist, Witch, Facilitator and Erotic Artist.
I believe that working with pleasure is the most radical thing we can do. Why? Because opening your body to pleasure is an act of vulnerability. Cultivating somatic sensitivity allows us to attune to our own needs and the needs of others. By embracing pleasure and the body’s natural aliveness, we begin to dismantle oppressive power structures from the inside out. Working with pleasure is somatic activism. It’s peace work. Website Luzi Pods* Foundations of Sexological Bodywork summarised: The foundations of Sexological Bodywork are centered on sexual healing, education, mindful self loving, and body awareness through client-led, therapeutic touch. This modality integrates breathwork, movement, sound, and guided touch to help individuals connect with their bodies and sexuality in a safe, consent-based environment. Sessions focus on areas such as exploring pleasure, releasing trauma, and addressing sexual dysfunction, while incorporating sex education and the anatomy of pleasure. Practitioners remain clothed, and all touch is one-way, creating a professional and respectful space for healing and growth. Each session is shaped by the client's needs and goals, ensuring a personalized experience that supports sexual well-being.
Client-Led and Therapeutic: Sexological Bodywork is driven by the client's needs, focusing on sexual healing, body awareness, and resolving trauma in a safe, structured environment.
One-Way Touch, Clear Boundaries: All touch is one-way, with the practitioner fully clothed, ensuring a professional, respectful space for growth.
Educational Focus: It incorporates sexual education and the anatomy of pleasure, helping clients explore communication, boundaries, and consent.
Distinct from Tantra Massage: While Tantra massage focusing on sexual energy and spirituality, sexological bodywork works with sexual energy and focuses on clients needs, education, healing, and a trauma-informed approach.
Further resources & follow Simon & Simon on relevant links below: Simon Transparentlysoul of pleasure | 30 days of self loving devotionSimon Heller: Simon Heller Touched South AfricaOther Links: Sexological Bodywork, Zurich centreSexological Bodywork founders websiteThe Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers

SexBod Series Ep 7 | The Core Erotic Theme with Dietmar Liebold

Welcome back to The Sexbod Series, Episode 7 of this special 8-part mini-series where I’m joined by my good friend and fellow Sexological Bodyworker, Simon Heller. Simon, who now teaches this transformative practice, brings his deep expertise as we explore the intersection of self-love, sexuality, and the body through the lens of Sexological Bodywork. This series is designed to share knowledge, educate, and illuminate this powerful modality—helping listeners understand its potential to transform their relationship with themselves and their bodies.
Episode 7: The Core Erotic Theme with Dietmar Liebold
In this thought-provoking episode, Simon and Simon are joined by Dietmar Liebold, a renowned Sexological Bodyworker and founder of the Zurich Bodywork Center. With a rich background in body therapy, couples work, and sex education, Dietmar shares his unique perspective shaped by his own journey into embodiment and intimate connection.
Together, they explore the concept of the Core Erotic Theme (CET), a framework introduced by Dr. Jack Morin in The Erotic Mind. This theme reveals the emotional and psychological blueprint behind our desires and arousal, shaped by personal experiences, fantasies, and the interplay of guilt, taboo, and longing. Dietmar offers practical insights into how understanding CET can unlock greater self-awareness, deepen intimacy, and bring more fulfillment to relationships.
Whether you're curious about the complexities of desire or looking to explore new dimensions of intimacy, Episode 7 is an invitation to embrace the transformative potential of the Core Erotic Theme. Tune in for an enlightening conversation filled with professional expertise and personal wisdom.* Dietmar Liebold is a certified Sexological Bodyworker and founder of the Zurich Bodywork Center. A passionate body therapist and sex educator, Dietmar specializes in helping individuals and couples deepen their connection through embodiment and intimate touch. His journey began with transformative experiences in salsa dancing, massage, and tantra, which inspired him to transition from corporate life to a vocation focused on healing and connection.Stay tuned as Simon and Simon continue to explore various dimensions of Sexological Bodywork in upcoming episodes, offering fresh insights and deeper dives into each topic. Whether you're a seasoned practitioner or simply curious about body-based self-love, this mini-series is here to inspire, educate, and transform your relationship with your body and self.* Foundations of Sexological Bodywork summarised: The foundations of Sexological Bodywork are centered on sexual healing, education, mindful self loving, and body awareness through client-led, therapeutic touch. This modality integrates breathwork, movement, sound, and guided touch to help individuals connect with their bodies and sexuality in a safe, consent-based environment. Sessions focus on areas such as exploring pleasure, releasing trauma, and addressing sexual dysfunction, while incorporating sex education and the anatomy of pleasure. Practitioners remain clothed, and all touch is one-way, creating a professional and respectful space for healing and growth. Each session is shaped by the client's needs and goals, ensuring a personalized experience that supports sexual well-being.
Client-Led and Therapeutic: Sexological Bodywork is driven by the client's needs, focusing on sexual healing, body awareness, and resolving trauma in a safe, structured environment.
One-Way Touch, Clear Boundaries: All touch is one-way, with the practitioner fully clothed, ensuring a professional, respectful space for growth.
Educational Focus: It incorporates sexual education and the anatomy of pleasure, helping clients explore communication, boundaries, and consent.
Distinct from Tantra Massage: While Tantra massage focusing on sexual energy and spirituality, sexological bodywork works with sexual energy and focuses on clients needs, education, healing, and a trauma-informed approach.
Further resources & follow Simon & Simon on relevant links below: Simon Transparentlysoul of pleasure | 30 days of self loving devotionSimon Heller: Simon Heller Touched South AfricaOther Links: Sexological Bodywork, Zurich centreSexological Bodywork founders websiteThe Association of Certified Sexological BodyworkersResources mentioned during podcast: The Erotic Mind - Jack MorinBrain Talk - David SchnarchExistential Kink - Carolyn Elliott

SexBod Series Ep 6 | Moving Erotic Energy Through the Body

Welcome back to The Sexbod Series, Episode 6 of this special 8-part mini-series where I’m joined by my good friend and fellow Sexological Bodyworker, Simon Heller. Simon, who now teaches this transformative practice, brings his deep expertise as we explore the intersection of self-love, sexuality, and the body through the lens of Sexological Bodywork. This series is designed to share knowledge, educate, and illuminate this powerful modality—helping listeners understand its potential to transform their relationship with themselves and their bodies.
Episode 6: High-Energy Embodiment – Moving Erotic Energy Through the Body
In this vibrant and dynamic episode, Simon and Simon dive into the fascinating world of sexual energy—how it moves through the body, how it can be cultivated, and how it transforms when consciously embodied through Sexological Bodywork. They explore the often untapped or suppressed potential of high levels of sexual energy, showing how it can be directed for healing, empowerment, and expanded self-awareness.
This episode offers a lively discussion on working with energy in the body, revealing how Sexological Bodywork goes beyond physical touch to embrace the full spectrum of energetic and emotional experiences. Simon and Simon share insights into how these practices help unlock flow and foster a deeper connection to oneself.
Tune in to Episode 6 to explore the dynamic world of sexual energy and discover how Sexological Bodywork can unlock new pathways of energetic flow and self-empowerment. Whether you’ve been following the series or are jumping in now, this episode will leave you inspired to connect more deeply with your body’s full potential.Each episode in this mini-series delves into different aspects of Sexological Bodywork, a holistic approach to sexuality that fosters a deep connection between body, mind, and spirit. Whether you're new to this concept or looking to deepen your knowledge, this series offers insightful perspectives and practical wisdom from both co-hosts as they share their personal journeys and professional expertise in this unique field.
Stay tuned as Simon and Simon continue to explore various dimensions of Sexological Bodywork in upcoming episodes, offering fresh insights and deeper dives into each topic. Whether you're a seasoned practitioner or simply curious about body-based self-love, this mini-series is here to inspire, educate, and transform your relationship with your body and self.* Foundations of Sexological Bodywork summarised: The foundations of Sexological Bodywork are centered on sexual healing, education, mindful self loving, and body awareness through client-led, therapeutic touch. This modality integrates breathwork, movement, sound, and guided touch to help individuals connect with their bodies and sexuality in a safe, consent-based environment. Sessions focus on areas such as exploring pleasure, releasing trauma, and addressing sexual dysfunction, while incorporating sex education and the anatomy of pleasure. Practitioners remain clothed, and all touch is one-way, creating a professional and respectful space for healing and growth. Each session is shaped by the client's needs and goals, ensuring a personalized experience that supports sexual well-being.
Client-Led and Therapeutic: Sexological Bodywork is driven by the client's needs, focusing on sexual healing, body awareness, and resolving trauma in a safe, structured environment.
One-Way Touch, Clear Boundaries: All touch is one-way, with the practitioner fully clothed, ensuring a professional, respectful space for growth.
Educational Focus: It incorporates sexual education and the anatomy of pleasure, helping clients explore communication, boundaries, and consent.
Distinct from Tantra Massage: While Tantra massage focusing on sexual energy and spirituality, sexological bodywork works with sexual energy and focuses on clients needs, education, healing, and a trauma-informed approach.
Further resources & follow Simon & Simon on relevant links below: Simon Transparentlysoul of pleasure | 30 days of self loving devotionSimon Heller: Simon Heller Touched South AfricaOther Links: Sexological Bodywork, Zurich centreSexological Bodywork founders websiteThe Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers

SexBod Series Ep 5 | The Magic of Therapeutic Touch

Welcome back to The Sexbod Series, episode 5 of the special 8-part mini-series where I’m joined by my good friend and fellow Sexological Bodyworker, Simon Heller. Simon, who now teaches this transformative practice, brings his deep expertise as we explore the intersection of self-love, sexuality, and the body through the lens of Sexological Bodywork. This series is designed to share knowledge, educate, and shed light on this powerful modality—helping listeners understand what it’s truly capable of and how it can transform their relationship with themselves and their bodies.
Episode 5: The Magic of Therapeutic Touch
In this thought-provoking fifth episode, Simon & Simon dive into the transformative themes of touch, yoni, and lingam—terms used in Sexological Bodywork to honor the vulva and penis. Touch, introduced as the fourth pillar of Sexological Bodywork, plays a vital role in healing and connecting with our whole selves, bringing a gentle, magical element to personal growth. This episode invites listeners to soften any ingrained beliefs around touch and sexuality as Simon and Simon explore the deep-seated shame often tied to self-touch and being touched by others.
Drawing from both personal and professional insights, they unpack the stigmas surrounding these intimate areas, offering a fresh perspective on how therapeutic touch can be deeply healing. Rather than focusing solely on the genitals, they highlight that Sexological Bodywork encompasses the entire body, reframing genital touch as part of a larger, nurturing process that brings physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being.
Come along and explore the magic of touch, the freedom found in releasing outdated taboos, and a pathway to a more compassionate, holistic view of self-love and bodywork.
Each episode in this mini-series delves into different aspects of Sexological Bodywork, a holistic approach to sexuality that fosters a deep connection between body, mind, and spirit. Whether you're new to this concept or looking to deepen your knowledge, this series offers insightful perspectives and practical wisdom from both co-hosts as they share their personal journeys and professional expertise in this unique field.
Stay tuned as Simon and Simon continue to explore various dimensions of Sexological Bodywork in upcoming episodes, offering fresh insights and deeper dives into each topic. Whether you're a seasoned practitioner or simply curious about body-based self-love, this mini-series is here to inspire, educate, and transform your relationship with your body and self.* Foundations of Sexological Bodywork summarised: The foundations of Sexological Bodywork are centered on sexual healing, education, mindful self loving, and body awareness through client-led, therapeutic touch. This modality integrates breathwork, movement, sound, and guided touch to help individuals connect with their bodies and sexuality in a safe, consent-based environment. Sessions focus on areas such as exploring pleasure, releasing trauma, and addressing sexual dysfunction, while incorporating sex education and the anatomy of pleasure. Practitioners remain clothed, and all touch is one-way, creating a professional and respectful space for healing and growth. Each session is shaped by the client's needs and goals, ensuring a personalized experience that supports sexual well-being.
Client-Led and Therapeutic: Sexological Bodywork is driven by the client's needs, focusing on sexual healing, body awareness, and resolving trauma in a safe, structured environment.
One-Way Touch, Clear Boundaries: All touch is one-way, with the practitioner fully clothed, ensuring a professional, respectful space for growth.
Educational Focus: It incorporates sexual education and the anatomy of pleasure, helping clients explore communication, boundaries, and consent.
Distinct from Tantra Massage: While Tantra massage focusing on sexual energy and spirituality, sexological bodywork works with sexual energy and focuses on clients needs, education, healing, and a trauma-informed approach.
Further resources & follow Simon & Simon on relevant links below: Simon Transparentlysoul of pleasure | 30 days of self loving devotionSimon Heller: Simon Heller Touched South AfricaOther Links: Sexological Bodywork, Zurich centreSexological Bodywork founders websiteThe Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers

SexBod Series Ep 4 | Why Sexological Bodywork Matters

Welcome back to The Sexbod Series, episode 4 of the special 8-part mini-series where I’m joined by my good friend and fellow Sexological Bodyworker, Simon Heller. Simon, who now teaches this transformative practice, brings his deep expertise as we explore the intersection of self-love, sexuality, and the body through the lens of Sexological Bodywork. This series is designed to share knowledge, educate, and shed light on this powerful modality—helping listeners understand what it’s truly capable of and how it can transform their relationship with themselves and their bodies.
Episode 4: Why Sexological Bodywork Matters
In this dynamic and heartfelt fourth episode, Simon and I are joined by friends Lennard, Hannah, and Kate, each of whom brings a passion for self-love and the journey of reconnecting with the body through Sexological Bodywork. Together, the five of us engage in an open, free-flowing discussion about how this practice has influenced our lives and why we feel it’s essential to share it with the world.
Through personal stories and thoughtful reflections, we explore how Sexological Bodywork can create profound shifts in emotional and physical healing and why it’s so vital for helping others reclaim a conscious, empowered relationship with their bodies. The group also discusses the broader impact of this work on society, highlighting how spreading awareness can foster more open, empowered, and loving communities.
Tune in to this inspiring conversation and discover how Sexological Bodywork can create lasting change, not only for individuals but for the collective. If you're curious about the movement toward body-based healing and self-love, Episode 4 is a must-listen!* Foundations of Sexological Bodywork summarised: The foundations of Sexological Bodywork are centered on sexual healing, education, mindful self loving, and body awareness through client-led, therapeutic touch. This modality integrates breathwork, movement, sound, and guided touch to help individuals connect with their bodies and sexuality in a safe, consent-based environment. Sessions focus on areas such as exploring pleasure, releasing trauma, and addressing sexual dysfunction, while incorporating sex education and the anatomy of pleasure. Practitioners remain clothed, and all touch is one-way, creating a professional and respectful space for healing and growth. Each session is shaped by the client's needs and goals, ensuring a personalized experience that supports sexual well-being.
Client-Led and Therapeutic: Sexological Bodywork is driven by the client's needs, focusing on sexual healing, body awareness, and resolving trauma in a safe, structured environment.
One-Way Touch, Clear Boundaries: All touch is one-way, with the practitioner fully clothed, ensuring a professional, respectful space for growth.
Educational Focus: It incorporates sexual education and the anatomy of pleasure, helping clients explore communication, boundaries, and consent.
Distinct from Tantra Massage: While Tantra massage focusing on sexual energy and spirituality, sexological bodywork works with sexual energy and focuses on clients needs, education, healing, and a trauma-informed approach.
Further resources & follow Simon & Simon on relevant links below: Simon Transparentlysoul of pleasure | 30 days of self loving devotionSimon Heller: Simon Heller Touched South AfricaLenerd LouwLenerd Louw websiteOther Links: Sexological Bodywork, Zurich centreSexological Bodywork founders websiteThe Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers

SexBod Series Ep 3 | Genital Mapping

Welcome back to The Sexbod Series, episode 3 of the special 8-part mini-series where I’m joined by my good friend and fellow Sexological Bodyworker, Simon Heller. Simon, who now teaches this transformative practice, brings his deep expertise as we explore the intersection of self-love, sexuality, and the body through the lens of Sexological Bodywork. This series is designed to share knowledge, educate, and shed light on this powerful modality—helping listeners understand what it’s truly capable of and how it can transform their relationship with themselves and their bodies.
Episode 3: Genital Mapping
In this third episode, Simon and Simon dive into the fascinating and transformative practice of Genital Mapping. This may be a term you haven’t encountered before, but get ready to expand your understanding of the body beyond anything you may have learned in school. Genital Mapping, a practice within Sexological Bodywork, allows individuals to become more attuned to their bodies—particularly the genital area.
More than simply identifying body parts, Genital Mapping is about reconnecting with the body in a profound way, fostering an open and healthy relationship with the areas we often refer to vaguely as “down there.”
The hosts share how mapping helps to release shame, increase awareness, and support healing through a deeper, more intimate understanding of the body. If you’re ready to break free from limiting ideas about your body and discover new pathways to self-love and openness, this episode is for you.
Each episode in this mini-series delves into different aspects of Sexological Bodywork, a holistic approach to sexuality that fosters a deep connection between body, mind, and spirit. Whether you're new to this concept or looking to deepen your knowledge, this series offers insightful perspectives and practical wisdom from both co-hosts as they share their personal journeys and professional expertise in this unique field.
Stay tuned as Simon and Simon continue to explore various dimensions of Sexological Bodywork in upcoming episodes, offering fresh insights and deeper dives into each topic. Whether you're a seasoned practitioner or simply curious about body-based self-love, this mini-series is here to inspire, educate, and transform your relationship with your body and self.* Foundations of Sexological Bodywork summarised: The foundations of Sexological Bodywork are centered on sexual healing, education, mindful self loving, and body awareness through client-led, therapeutic touch. This modality integrates breathwork, movement, sound, and guided touch to help individuals connect with their bodies and sexuality in a safe, consent-based environment. Sessions focus on areas such as exploring pleasure, releasing trauma, and addressing sexual dysfunction, while incorporating sex education and the anatomy of pleasure. Practitioners remain clothed, and all touch is one-way, creating a professional and respectful space for healing and growth. Each session is shaped by the client's needs and goals, ensuring a personalized experience that supports sexual well-being.
Client-Led and Therapeutic: Sexological Bodywork is driven by the client's needs, focusing on sexual healing, body awareness, and resolving trauma in a safe, structured environment.
One-Way Touch, Clear Boundaries: All touch is one-way, with the practitioner fully clothed, ensuring a professional, respectful space for growth.
Educational Focus: It incorporates sexual education and the anatomy of pleasure, helping clients explore communication, boundaries, and consent.
Distinct from Tantra Massage: While Tantra massage focusing on sexual energy and spirituality, sexological bodywork works with sexual energy and focuses on clients needs, education, healing, and a trauma-informed approach.
Further resources & follow Simon & Simon on relevant links below: Simon Transparentlysoul of pleasure | 30 days of self loving devotionSimon Heller: Simon Heller Touched South AfricaOther Links: Sexological Bodywork, Zurich centreSexological Bodywork founders websiteThe Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers

SexBod Series Ep 2 | The Four Pillars of Sexological Bodywork

Welcome back to The Sexbod Series, episode 2 of the special 8-part mini-series within the podcast, where I’m joined by my good friend and fellow Sexological Bodyworker, Simon Heller. Simon, who now teaches this transformative practice, brings his deep expertise as we explore the intersection of self-love, sexuality, and the body through the lens of Sexological Bodywork. This series is designed to share knowledge, educate, and shed light on this powerful modality—helping listeners understand what it’s truly capable of and how it can transform their relationship with themselves and their bodies.
Episode 2: The Four Pillars of Sexological Bodywork
If you haven’t yet listened to the first episode, we recommend starting there for an introduction to the foundational concepts of Sexological Bodywork. In this episode, Simon and Simon dive into the Four Pillars that form the core of this transformative practice: breath, movement, sound, and intentional touch.
Together, they explore how these pillars work in harmony to deepen self-awareness, release emotions, and strengthen embodied connection. Breath regulates and connects, movement awakens energy, sound amplifies expression, and intentional touch grounds the body in its sensations. This episode provides a richer understanding of these powerful tools and their role in creating a more integrated experience of self-love and sexuality.
Each episode in this mini-series delves into different aspects of Sexological Bodywork, a holistic approach to sexuality that fosters a deep connection between body, mind, and spirit. Whether you're new to this concept or looking to deepen your knowledge, this series offers insightful perspectives and practical wisdom from both co-hosts as they share their personal journeys and professional expertise in this unique field.
Stay tuned as Simon and Simon continue to explore various dimensions of Sexological Bodywork in upcoming episodes, offering fresh insights and deeper dives into each topic. Whether you're a seasoned practitioner or simply curious about body-based self-love, this mini-series is here to inspire, educate, and transform your relationship with your body and self.* Foundations of Sexological Bodywork summarised:The foundations of Sexological Bodywork are centered on sexual healing, education, mindful self loving, and body awareness through client-led, therapeutic touch. This modality integrates breathwork, movement, sound, and guided touch to help individuals connect with their bodies and sexuality in a safe, consent-based environment. Sessions focus on areas such as exploring pleasure, releasing trauma, and addressing sexual dysfunction, while incorporating sex education and the anatomy of pleasure. Practitioners remain clothed, and all touch is one-way, creating a professional and respectful space for healing and growth. Each session is shaped by the client's needs and goals, ensuring a personalized experience that supports sexual well-being.
Client-Led and Therapeutic: Sexological Bodywork is driven by the client's needs, focusing on sexual healing, body awareness, and resolving trauma in a safe, structured environment.
One-Way Touch, Clear Boundaries: All touch is one-way, with the practitioner fully clothed, ensuring a professional, respectful space for growth.
Educational Focus: It incorporates sexual education and the anatomy of pleasure, helping clients explore communication, boundaries, and consent.
Distinct from Tantra Massage: While Tantra massage focusing on sexual energy and spirituality, sexological bodywork works with sexual energy and focuses on clients needs, education, healing, and a trauma-informed approach.
* Download: Self Pleasure PDF and Guided Audio: (coming very soon)Comfort Zone Model: View & Download here.
Further resources & follow Simon & Simon on relevant links below: Simon Transparentlysoul of pleasure | 30 days of self loving devotionSimon Heller: Simon Heller Touched South AfricaOther Links: Sexological Bodywork, Zurich centreSexological Bodywork founders websiteThe Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers

SexBod Series Ep 1 | The Foundation of Sexological Bodywork

Welcome to The Sexbod Series, a special 8-part mini-series within the podcast, where I’m joined by my good friend and fellow Sexological Bodyworker, Simon Heller. Simon, who now teaches this transformative practice, brings his deep expertise as we explore the intersection of self-love, sexuality, and the body through the lens of Sexological Bodywork. This series is designed to share knowledge, educate, and shed light on this powerful modality—helping listeners understand what it’s truly capable of and how it can transform their relationship with themselves and their bodies.
Episode 1: The Foundation of Sexological Bodywork
In the first episode, Simon and Simon lay the groundwork for the entire series by introducing the fundamentals of sexological bodywork, often referred to as bodywork or somatic bodywork. They share how they came to this profound practice and explain what sexological bodywork truly is. If you're curious about self-love, embodied sexuality, or simply want to better understand your two hosts and their passionate work, this is the perfect episode to start with. Before diving deeper into more specific topics in the upcoming episodes.
Each episode in this mini-series will delve into different aspects of sexological bodywork, a holistic approach to sexuality that nurtures a deep connection between body, mind, and spirit. Whether you're new to the concept or seeking a deeper understanding, this series will provide insightful perspectives and practical wisdom from both co-hosts as they share their personal experiences and professional expertise in this unique field.
Stay tuned for upcoming episodes where Simon and Simon explore various dimensions of sexological bodywork, offering fresh insights and a deeper dive into each topic. Whether you're a seasoned practitioner or just curious about body-based self-love, this mini-series is designed to inspire, educate, and transform your relationship with yourself and your body.* Foundations of Sexological Bodywork summarised:The foundations of Sexological Bodywork are centered on sexual healing, education, mindful self loving, and body awareness through client-led, therapeutic touch. This modality integrates breathwork, movement, sound, and guided touch to help individuals connect with their bodies and sexuality in a safe, consent-based environment. Sessions focus on areas such as exploring pleasure, releasing trauma, and addressing sexual dysfunction, while incorporating sex education and the anatomy of pleasure. Practitioners remain clothed, and all touch is one-way, creating a professional and respectful space for healing and growth. Each session is shaped by the client's needs and goals, ensuring a personalized experience that supports sexual well-being.
Client-Led and Therapeutic: Sexological Bodywork is driven by the client's needs, focusing on sexual healing, body awareness, and resolving trauma in a safe, structured environment.
One-Way Touch, Clear Boundaries: All touch is one-way, with the practitioner fully clothed, ensuring a professional, respectful space for growth.
Educational Focus: It incorporates sexual education and the anatomy of pleasure, helping clients explore communication, boundaries, and consent.
Distinct from Tantra Massage: While Tantra massage focusing on sexual energy and spirituality, sexological bodywork works with sexual energy and focuses on clients needs, education, healing, and a trauma-informed approach.
* Download: Self Pleasure PDF and Guided Audio: (coming very soon)Further resources & follow Simon & Simon on relevant links below: Simon Transparentlysoul of pleasure | 30 days of self loving devotionSimon Heller: Simon Heller Touched South AfricaOther Links: Sexological Bodywork, Zurich centreSexological Bodywork founders websiteThe Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers

Sylvi Cares #48 | The Essence of Conscious Temple Culture

In this episode of Simon Transparently, Simon invites another of his inspiring friends Sylvi, founder of Conscious Temple Munich, for an illuminating conversation recorded after a powerful Temple weekend in Munich. Here, individuals gather to connect deeply on physical, emotional, and spiritual levels, reawakening the life force often numbed by modern life. Together, Simon and Sylvi dive into the essence of “Temple Culture” and its role in fostering deeper connection and self-awareness.
Sylvi shares her vision behind creating conscious spaces that go beyond “sex-positive” culture, emphasizing a mindful approach to inner awareness and intimacy. Conscious Temple Munich provides a safe, supportive environment where participants can explore connection with others and cultivate a healthy relationship with their life force energy. Simon and Sylvi discuss the challenges and rewards of opening oneself to this depth, the importance of commitment to personal growth, and the transformational power of Temple spaces.
Drawing on wisdom from traditions around the world, their conversation highlights how Temples serve as sanctuaries for self-discovery, inviting us to peel back layers of societal conditioning around sexuality and to experience ecstatic aliveness and erotic sovereignty. If you’re curious about conscious spaces, redefining intimacy, or simply seeking deeper connection, this episode offers a glimpse into the expansive potential of Temple culture.Sylvi, founder of Conscious Temple Munich, has over 25 years of experience creating spaces for individuals to explore their full potential with love, respect, and acceptance at the core. A dancer, teacher, and bodywork practitioner, her background in physiotherapy, shamanism, Tantra, and conscious relating enables her to facilitate transformative, body-centered experiences. Sylvi guides both individuals and groups in reconnecting with their life force and authentic selves, fostering self-empowerment, creativity, and vitality.
Connect with Sylvi here

Buster Radvik #47 | Trauma to Trust: Healing in Connection

Welcome back to another episode of the Simon Transparently podcast! This time, Simon introduces his inspiring and dear friend Buster Rådvik, whom he recently met in person after years of virtual connection. Recorded shortly after an immersive five-day workshop, Trauma to Trust, this conversation dives into the heart of trauma healing, resilience, and relational trust. While a minor microphone issue affected the sound quality, the powerful insights and message Buster shares are too impactful not to bring to you.
In this episode, Simon and Buster reflect on their experiences from the Trauma to Trust training in Berlin, a deep dive into understanding the nervous system, fostering trauma awareness, and developing resilience through somatic practices and community. Designed to help participants form new memories of connection and belonging, this transformative workshop offers practical tools for navigating difficult moments and relating to others with a trauma-informed perspective.
Buster shares his personal journey from distrust and disconnection to healing and integration, explaining how his background in dance, psychology, and therapeutic community work has shaped his approach to trauma. Together, Simon and Buster discuss the power of vulnerability, the role of the facilitator, and the importance of staying present even in challenging moments. This heartfelt conversation highlights the continuous journey toward wholeness and the importance of community and compassion in trauma integration.
If this episode sparks your interest, explore Buster’s work and the Trauma to Trust training through the links below.
* Buster Rådvik, a certified psychotherapist with over 30 years in clinical practice, specializes in trauma, attachment, and relational awareness. With a background in Sensorimotor Psychotherapy, contemplative psychology, and family therapy, Buster focuses on embodiment, intimacy, communication, and collective healing. His approach, rooted in personal experience and professional expertise, aims to help individuals find meaning and connection in their own lives.
For more on Buster’s work, visit Path of Relating

Mark Silver #46 | How Heart-Centered Business Can Thrive In Uncertain Times

In this episode Simon Transparently communicates with Mark Silver—an entrepreneur, founder of Heart of Business, and author of Heart-Centered Business: Healing from Toxic Business Culture so Your Small Business Can Thrive. Although Simon has been inspired by Mark and his ethos for over a decade, this is their first virtual encounter, bringing fresh insights and shared values to the conversation on running a business with heart.
Together, Simon and Mark explore what it means to thrive while letting clients set their price, an approach Simon has embraced within the "gift economy" model. Their candid discussion touches on the challenges and insights of this economy and offers valuable reflections for anyone considering or practicing this model. As they discuss building a business amidst global unrest, they share wisdom on nurturing a business that aligns with personal values and honors a heart-centered approach.
Tune in to gain practical, heartfelt insights on thriving in uncertain times and discover new ways to align your business with purpose, resilience, and care.
* Since 1999, Mark Silver, M.Div., has dedicated himself to helping heart-centered entrepreneurs recognize that every act of business can be an act of love. Founder of Heart of Business, Inc., Mark is a Sufi Master Teacher and a pioneer in merging authentic spirituality with small business practices. With thousands of coaching sessions and hundreds of classes, Mark has guided entrepreneurs in creating businesses that are both nurturing and powerful. He is the author of Heart-Centered Business: Healing from Toxic Business Culture so Your Small Business Can Thrive, a guide for creating spirit-centered, sustainable business practices.
For more on Mark’s work, visit Heart of Business

Nivek #45 | There Is Nothing Wrong With You.

We Long For Love Yet We Are Terrified Of It. Dissecting Reality & All Presumptive Realities. Question Everything. Presume Nothing. We Are Divine Beings. There Is Nothing Wrong With You.  How much am I looking at myself and functioning from a presumptive reality or preconditioned state? Why do I still perceive there is something wrong with me? In this transformative conversation, Nivek and I tackle one of the deepest false beliefs society has ingrained in us: the idea that we are not enough. From an early age, we’re conditioned—especially by capitalist systems—to believe we need constant improvement, always chasing something more. But the truth is, we are already magnificent, divine beings. There is nothing wrong with us. 

Recorded after six immersive days together, this episode offers a fresh lens to view reality—exploring concepts like Access Consciousness; a set of tools and techniques that help clear mental, emotional, and energetic blocks, fostering greater awareness, false belief systems, and even the stories we tell ourselves about money and war.
We unravel the mental constructs around love, worthiness, money, and societal conditioning that keep us stuck. Nivek, a *misfit and unpredictable genius*, shares from his life experience and offers powerful insights into how we can break free from these limiting beliefs and reconnect with our inherent divinity.
The self-development industry, built largely on the belief that we are not enough, was valued at over **$40 billion globally** in 2021. By 2030, it's projected to grow to **$67 billion**—proving how deeply rooted this narrative is in society. But through this episode, we’re challenging that notion and offering new ways to reconnect with who we truly are.
Ready to let go of the idea that you need to be “fixed”? Kevin (Nivek): Biohacker; described as a…Misfit, Unpredictable and Genius.Since a young age he knew that there must be more to life than the concepts and drama that this reality is structured upon. His innate sense of wonder and rebellion lead him through a meandering path of self rediscovery. The past 15 years he has been facilitating Sound & other modalities, in a particular framing that has unfolded through his own experiences of healing and restoration. Having assisted and studied in entheogen’s, meditation, self inquiry shamanism and countless other modalities and practices, he currently focuses on facilitating a simple, effective Sound Journey that can bring spaciousness and lightness from which the healing can be initiated. More here: WebsiteThe clearing statement, access consciousness.
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